Lying with integruity.

Is the ability to lie something that is centre to all of us? Does everyone have it in them to lie? What about lieing is wrong? What are the worst types of lies? Is it ever right to lie to save a persons feelings?

These are questions i am going to attempt to answer throughout my blog, I honestly believe everybody has the ability to lie, everyone can say the words that become a lie, the difference between people and the ability to lie, is there reaction when they lie, people may say a good lyer will have no reaction at all and this will make them a good at lying, where as other people may laugh or twitch when lying making it a tell tail sign to another that they are lying, giving them a not very good ability to lie, but never the less the ability is there.

Would you ever lie to purposly hurt another person?

I know from my own experience, that maybe lying to save another persons feelings is ok. But in moderation, hence the saying a little white lie, i believe this is something that isnt going to harm another if the lie is made and it isnt something that is going to cause someone a great deal of stress if the truth is to come out, such as if someone see's a nice dress they like and they try it on and ask you how you think it looks, you personally dont like the dress but dont want to hurt the persons feeling so you say it is nice. A little white lie.

What is bad behaviour.

Prostitution and stealing, both ways to make a living, but what is different from making this kind of living to any other types of making a wage to support a family.

A woman's choice to change her body.

Isn't it a woman's choice whether she want to make a living off her own body, a woman has the right to decide what goes on with her own body. But if a woman was to take money of a man, knowing he expects sex in return, and then does not fulfil the arrangement, then would this be stealing. The woman knows the man had paid for something in return but she has not given this. could this be classed the same way as a man walking into a shop and paying the woman behind the till for say a packet of cigarettes, but the woman does not give him the cigarette, then she is stealing from him surely.

Also if a man walked into a shop and stole the cigarettes then he is stealing, the woman expected money from him and he didn't give her the money. So isn't it just one big circle. Basically if someone does something excepting something in return that is more or less promised, it isn't good behaviour, not to do this.

Smoking.

Smoking, yes I smoke. I have for many years, first i was about 10 and thought it was "cool" smoking when I was with various friends, knowing it was equaly wrong aswell as damerging to my health, but at the age of 10-11 i thought this was brilliant.

As i grew older i started to smoke more and more, and the move into seniour school seen me go from smoking with only a few friends of a weekend maybe, to smoking all the time. Cigerettes were "on tap" in senior school, most of my friends i met in the toilet smoking at break times, around 10 of us in a cubical and someone watching out for the dreaded moment a teacher would walk in just after you light your one cigerrette that you may have paid up to £2 out of your dinner money on and you have to throw it straight down the toilet.



Since then I have smoked up to now, giving up now and then but never lasting very long, that one drink down the pub or a stressfull day, even after a nice meal, these little things that would make me feel like ahh i could do with a fag right now, and that how it went.

Damages of smoking.

From the resources i have read, over 300 people die in the UK a day, over smoking related illnesses, more people under 70 die from smoking rather than breast cancer, HIV, aids , traffic accident or drug use.

There are many diseases caused through smoking aswell, such as cardiovascular disease, cancer and COPD. All these illnesses are caused over years of smoking, these illnesses effect breathing, the lungs and blood circulation around the body, the main cause of death through smoking is cardiovascular diseases.

Smoking causes other light diseases but these still are bad enough for a persons health, such as high blood pressure, fertility problems, bloodshop appearence and itchiness to eyes, muscular degeneration resulting to the gradule loss of eyesight, higher risk of cataracts, 25% more sick days than none-smokers, stained teeth and gums, development of ulsers and effects your looks.

So here i am with a list of what the one thing i enjoy doing in life is doing to me, so why do i keep doing it? Well i suppose that alone is the million dollor question every smoker wants the answer to.